Ungifted: Intelligence Redefined by Moe Abdou


One of the more memorable learning moments of my professional career came in August of 1991 when an individual who I had hired just a few month earlier, shared some deeply personal information with me.  Despite having attended a prominent liberal arts school in the Mid-Atlantic, he wanted his first career to be in sales; and particularly, to involve big ticket financial transactions. 

He was drawn to our firm's value proposition, and felt that he too, could play a significant role in elevating the wellbeing of some of Washington, DC's most prominent privately-held corporations.  His work ethic was tireless; his character was the most genuine that I had seen, and his ability to comprehend complex ideas was a gift. Unfortunately, he was not able to convince anyone to implement his ideas. 

Fearing my disappointment, he asked to have coffee with me outside the office on an early August morning, and for two hours, he spoke and I listened.  He shared the story of his upbringing; and not only was he adopted and had never met his birth parents, he had his self confidence shattered when his fourth fifth grade teacher labeled him 'a slow learner'.  He has since never stopped trying to prove her wrong; and this job was no different. 

He asked that I don't give up on him, and for the next fourteen years he evolved into a remarkable story of success and triumph.  Like Scott Barry Kaufman; he refused to let anyone define his future.  In his book  Ungifted: Intelligence Redefined  Scott chronicles a similar challenge; but in the process, he learned that society's definition of intelligence is incomplete – here's what he discovered ——-  



Further Reading
  • Seedling Relies on Childhood Curiosity to Inspire a Creative Team — On a recent flight home, I spent over an hour browsing a children’s play website, completely enamored by sets like Design Your Own Superhero Cape and Invent Your Own Insects. After sharing Seedling with everyone I know, despite few of my friends having children, I wondered why the brand struck a such a meaningful chord with me.
  • x.ai Unveils the Future of Artificial Intelligence — When Dennis R. Mortensen hired his founding team members at x.ai, he pitched them by illustrating his vision of a world where everyone has a personal assistant to schedule their meetings. Recognizing the complexity of the challenge, he concluded by saying: “We may die trying.”
  • The Power of Explosive Creation: How to Harness Your Creative Callings — If Steve Martocci could give everyone a fortune cookie with a customized saying inside he’d write: “Lost cookie. Please Return” with his name and address. “Imagine if I managed to reach the billions of people in the world. I’d love to see what kinds of letters I’d get back if I gave them a feedback loop,” he says.


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